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Awkward silence

Uploaded: Wednesday, November 10th, 2010

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Saturday, April 8th, 2006.

My odd experience with Helen, combined with a general lack of interest in me on the dating website, has meant a long gap between dates. But, I’ve just come back from a date with Karen. And that was odd too!

Like Helen, she refused to show me a photo of herself beforehand. When I asked her if she’d send me a photo, she sent a picture of a dog, which made me laugh. But when meeting in a busy pub, you end up looking at every lone female, wondering whether she’s the one you’re supposed to be meeting. We somehow managed to find each other; she looked nice, and not at all like a rottweiler.

I brought her a drink, and we sat down to chat. Or rather, I chatted and she said nothing. And she didn’t drink her lemonade. She just sat there. She only spoke long enough to confirm that she was hungry, so we went for a meal.

The Italian restaurant was nice, and again, I tried to start a conversation. She only spoke long enough to order her food.

I was now very conscious that I was trying to fill the awkward silences by talking more and more, whilst she simply wasn’t talking at all. Every time I stopped talking, the gap felt like a chasm. Any time I asked a question, the reply was a single word answer. “Oh, listen to me, jabbering away. I bet you can’t get a word in edgeways” I said, trying desperately. “Actually”, she said, “I thought you were being really quiet”. Reading it back, it sounds like she was making a joke. But she looked at me with all seriousness.

I decided just to eat my food. She’d given up after a couple of forkfuls and a sip of lemonade.

I gave her a lift home afterwards, and soon received a text telling me what a lovely night she’d had. Well I’m glad somebody had.

 

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  1.  
    Kate Crane commented at 7:19 pm on November 10th, 2010

    There are some odd people out there. That is all. ;)

     

  2.  
    Helen commented at 7:52 pm on November 11th, 2010

    How bizarre!! I’m wondering what the online/phone chat was like with her? must have been ok for you to meet her.
    I’m still following this blog… wish you could type faster though… hee hee sorry twas a bit cheeky!!!

     

  3.  
    Lisa commented at 4:59 pm on November 12th, 2010

    Maybe she was mesmerized by your charm? ;o)

     

  4.  
    lingz commented at 10:59 pm on November 11th, 2014

    I wonder if it was a confidence thing for her. Its unusual not to at least comment and 1 person do all the talking.

     


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